I am going thru this as well. My children, 23 & 28,choose their computer over me. There is no doubt they love me. I wonder if the search bar, you tibe and tik tok has taken the place of family conversations and those gentle moments I remember having with my parents. Just like I am now looking for reassurance online, I am sure my children do the same. They seek solutions Ina tool not a person where they might look invulnerable or weak. Today's society doesn't look well on those needing help. No one wants to disappoint those they love