I'm glad I came across this, makes me feel like I'm not so alone. My daughter and I were so close when she was growing up. We did everything together and I was always taking her on " girl's days and weekends" my mom never did anything like that with me and I showered all the love on her I never got and always made sure she knew she was loved.
She's 19 now, 2 months after she left for college she cut off all contact with me. I tried to beg her to please tell me what's wrong and she smiled like she was pleased she could hurt me like that. She sent word though me later through her younger brother that she doesn't like me anymore and doesn't ever want to talk to me again. I asked him if she said why and he told me she said it was because I one Sunday I told her she needed to get up so we could all go to church...that's it.
I'm at a loss, I don't even know who she is anymore.